Farewell to Mystic Girl

As I stood in the wash stall with Misty on this warm October morning getting Momma all ready for the trip, my mind drifted back two years. It was October of 1998. I was on the phone with Magic's previous owner, JoAnne, and talking about Misty, his momma. JoAnne and I had toyed with the idea of breeding Misty earlier that year and selling the foal to me. There is nothing I wouldn't do to get another of her babies. I wanted one just like Magic! (careful what you wish for) Anyway, in this conversation, she had said that Misty was open, that time slipped away and they had decided not to breed her..... HOWEVER, would I like to take her to Wisconsin, pick my own stallion and do it that way..... WOULD I???????? This is Magic's momma we were talking about. No matter the cost, she was to be here. Well, she arrived a few weeks later. Misty stepped off that trailer and into my heart. I had seen her before of course when I bought Magic, but here she was. Misty, the tiny mare. All 14.1 hands of her and that gorgeous head and huge eye. I was so excited to have her here with me. Magic was so happy and became instantly attached to her.

Misty would soon show me that she was not to be loved. She was a brood mare, she didn't want to be bothered. Her owner loved her, but Misty thought she was queen and she didn't need anything from me during her stay. She would run from me in the pasture when it was time to come in at night and she never had that friendliness about her that her son had. Hmmm, I was stumped and told myself I would have no problem sending her home. Misty was never mean, just always to herself. She had been "just a brood mare" all of her life due to a leg injury and I guess was never used to that much attention.

A few weeks passed and she decided she would start to like me. However, there was no babying for her. NO WAY. I am a momma horse, not a horse like Magic. So Misty became momma. It fit. I rarely called her Misty in the time she was with me. Usually when she did something undesirable, and that was it.

Momma stole my heart. She had such a wisdom about her. I guess after so many foals one would have that! There has always been an essence about her. I treat Magic and Mirage as kids so to speak where this mare was a friend. She gave me a whole new appreciation for brood mares.

Spring came and after many moons of searching for the right stallion for Misty, I chose one (I had been doing a lot of research for about 2 years before she even came to me) SA Hudson Bey, A Huckleberry Bey son out of the Bask daughter Ming Jade. There were MANY stallions I considered, but you have to pick what is right for the mare, and in my heart, he was the horse. (Well, Magic's daddy would have been sire if he was still alive)... but I love Hudson. Such a sweet boy and Misty liked him lots too! :-)

Misty was bred to Hudson and 11 months later we were blessed with Mirage. Misty and I went through our pregnancies together (Victoria was born a week after Mirage)

Momma is such a special mare. She has given so much to the Arabian breed. 13 foals to be exact. A noble momma with a soft heart. I offered to buy Momma many times during her stay with me. Her owner wanted her back and assured me she would live her days there or come back to me.

So here I stood on this warm October morning. After 2 very special years with a VERY special mare, I was faced with the reality that in about two hours I would have to say goodbye and she would make her trip back home, over 300 miles away. The memories flooded my thinking. The birth of my second dream horse, the one that was to be a colt, Misty gave me a filly so I would be able to someday carry on her memory. The day she stepped off that trailer. Her chasing Buckskin mares away from HER son. Laying in her stall when we were both ready to have babies and her laying so gentle next to me. Walks down the road. Magic's attachment to her. Brushing her. Watching her around little children and the softness in her nature. This was a true Momma. Then I thought to myself. I am going to do one last thing before they show up. So, I lead her out the the pasture where Magic was and set her loose to say goodbye. I watched them while I stood on the fence line with Mirage. Her nature was so clam and sweet, yet at the age of 20 she could sure put on a show.

The dreaded sound of a truck came up the road. I walked with Mirage back to the barn to wait. I was going to leave Momma and Magic for a bit. They all knew what was to come. They read me like a book. I was sad. They knew. I dried my tears and talked with Kirk and Kristi for a bit (the people taking her home) I tried to delay.... then I thought, I am going to loose it if I don't get her on that trailer. So, I went out and got Momma horse one last time, loaded her, and said goodbye. I am very good at holding back tears, but when that door closed there I was, waving goodbye and Momma horse neighing on that trailer all the way up the road. Magic was going wild in the pasture and I ran to have my shoulder to cry on. He stopped as soon as he saw me coming and stood and let me have my cry.

I love that mare. I will always have a special bond with her, and in my heart she is always going to be Momma, MY momma horse. She gave me 2 wonderful years of memories with her, and a lifetime of memories with my 2 dream horses I still have out of her. I will go to see her and scratch her special spot and sit quietly with her as we used to do. I will never forget you Mystic Girl! You are not "just a brood mare" you are the Queen and deserve your throne.

"Misty" was put to rest late Oct. due to a bad colic episode.  She was 23 and in foal to a Huckleberry Bey son, the last foal she was to have.  Misty (or momma as I called her) was a very dear to my heart mare that spent 2 years with me and she was a horse that I was sorry to see go home even though she had a great home in MI.  I haven't ever loved a horse that much that wasn't mine.  She was a very special mare to me, a friend. 

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